Part of my healing process was to write a letter - back to my 14 year old self. It was strange, daunting, raw and I cried. Dear B, I love you and all that you are, flaws and all, and so I need to share with you this - the greatest advice that I can give you is to "Respect and Love your SELF!" It may read to you right now as being the strangest advice, and I understand why you would think that because I remember the days at school in class, on the school quad at lunch or even